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@kaikatsu all the married ppl i know say the same thing about marriage: "we didn't think it would make a difference but we're even happier now than we were before." for marriage to worsen your life either you or your spouse has to be such a terrible, broken, selfish person that they're incapable of meaningful commitment & sacrifice imo.anyway in my case marriage was the end of 26 years of extreme and almost continuous emotional suffering & loneliness, saw the end of my depression, and gave me a life worth living for the first time ever, in the process rescuing me from the crushing near-destitution i spent my entire adult life trying to survive under and giving me & my partner a lower-middle-class income. ymmv
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@velartrill What I've gathered from media andmyparents is that marriage is the end of the best part of your life. Which is why I intend to only consider it at like 30 and hopefully I'll be successful enough to pull someone young enough to produce healthy kids (aka not 30)
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@kaikatsu @lain i'm married to another borderline, we are obsessively and obnoxiously in love with each other, and if it weren't for the rona, the language barrier, and the distance from my american friends even *we*'d be having people over constantly, to say nothing of "emotionally healthy" normiesthen again normies often seem to us unable to meaningfully bond so who knows
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@lain Like I could see a small little area for some mixing equipment but like stools and a bar table are a little much for me. Do married people even retain enough friends to justify a space in their house dedicated to entertaining the boys?
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@kaikatsu it's just you
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Does anybody else think house bars are cringe or is that just me?If you're gonna dedicate a portion of your house to drug use then lay out a blanket we smoking crack
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