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1. Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Monday, 19-Apr-2021 12:10:17 JST Rizzo
   My dad used to tell me if I was too open minded my head would fall off my shoulders.I think I'm at that point now. Because I don't have a lot of hard beliefs with many things. Like the whole "I am right. And anyone who doesn't agree with this take of mine is invalid." The only opinions I have that way are mainly hard moral ones. I don't really want to hurt people. And I'm not especially hardcore in whatever my belief system is. Mainly because I wouldnt support a belief system where people who were wrong would be punished.
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Monday, 19-Apr-2021 12:10:16 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

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     @rizzo people kinda dislike thinking, which makes sense because it takes up a lot of time and energy, so group dynamics tend to be used instead whenever possible, and convenient way of signalling in-group-status is by saying "hey, i hate that thing which is our common enemy"just-so-evopsych-somethingsomething
   • Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Monday, 19-Apr-2021 12:49:12 JST Rizzo

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     • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
     @shmibs yeah but honestly I'm autistic. So my sense of identity is already fucked up. And because I hate conflict I try and see every side of everything. So I feel like my lack of giving real fucks might be me not really feeling safe to give fucks? I think my identity isnt too horrible this way though.
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Monday, 19-Apr-2021 12:49:12 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

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     @rizzo well, probably better that way, though. optimal explore-exploit ratio has turned way towards explore since this whole modern society thing happened. at least for "being successful at thing"; still makes relationships more difficult to find