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neiko cat (neikocat@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:20 JST
neiko cat
im like the worst football fan, how am i meant to heckle the german players next week when kai havertz is playing and i have a crush on him... -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:12 JST
jade west tribute act
@ew @neikocat i’m going to grow old with my beautiful wife and there is nothing u can do about it ! バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; likes this. -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:13 JST
ew
@essie @neikocat lesbianism is a phase -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:14 JST
jade west tribute act
@neikocat its complicated i’m attracted to men but in a like an objectifying way lol, whereas i’m just regular attracted to women and love them and stuff -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:14 JST
jade west tribute act
@neikocat thats not to say ive NEVER actually liked a guy like that but as a rule i dont rly -
neiko cat (neikocat@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:15 JST
neiko cat
@essie i thought you were a lesbian lol -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:16 JST
jade west tribute act
@neikocat honestly i share the struggle i was talking to a norwegian dude who had that look -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:17 JST
jade west tribute act
@neikocat fair, just saying bro u dont have to go to germany for north face jacket dick! -
neiko cat (neikocat@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:17 JST
neiko cat
@essie dating a German and watching my ancestors spin in their graves lol -
neiko cat (neikocat@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:18 JST
neiko cat
@essie yeah but im basic af what do you expect lol -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:19 JST
jade west tribute act
@neikocat he’s cute but kinda dime a dozen tbh -
neiko cat (neikocat@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 11:59:20 JST
neiko cat
i mean look at him ???????????? -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:09 JST
ew
@neikocat @essie common sense reasoning -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:09 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew @essie @neikocat how is this related to lesbiab? -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:10 JST
ew
@essie @neikocat I'm not worried about you I'm telling you what's going to happen -
neiko cat (neikocat@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:10 JST
neiko cat
@ew @essie how did you manage to acquire the power of a clairvoyant? -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:11 JST
ew
@essie @neikocat no, I said you should stop being a lesbian so you can find a mate that you'll want to settle down with and have babies because that can take many years -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:11 JST
jade west tribute act
@ew @neikocat plz worry about ur own dick and not the one of my imaginary baby daddy -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:12 JST
ew
@essie @neikocat oh then you definitely don't know wtf you are talking about -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:12 JST
jade west tribute act
@ew @neikocat you think i, an 18 year old, should be trying to have babies? in this fucking economy? -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:13 JST
ew
@essie @neikocat well you were born and clocks ticking -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:13 JST
jade west tribute act
@ew @neikocat i’m 18 bro the clock can wait -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:14 JST
jade west tribute act
@ew @neikocat i have some undiagnosed hormonal issue that means i get a period like once a year + my mum had a bunch of miscarriages so not much to be optimistic ab there lol -
jade west tribute act (essie@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:15 JST
jade west tribute act
@ew @neikocat i’m probs not even able to have them so shrug -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:15 JST
ew
@essie @neikocat why's that -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:04:16 JST
ew
@essie @neikocat I don't have to do anything about it, your biological urge to have children will fix it -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:09:12 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew well, how is that related to lesbiab thoughlike not being able to have kids kinda sucks yeh, but having a spouse is still pretty great, as is adopting -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:09:13 JST
ew
@shmibs @essie @neikocat as a woman not procreating doesn't fulfill your biological imperatives, by the time you hit age 32 your looks start to rapidly decline tanking any hope for you finding a suitable partner to have a baby with. -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:25:29 JST
ew
@shmibs because lesbianism isn't real, women aren't like men where bisexuality is uncommon and they are either 100% straight or 100% gay. their interest depends on the person. adopting doesn't fulfill the biological imperative that birthing a child does (and your hormones change after you do). if you want to be a lesbian go ahead but after a certain amount of time your biological hormones are going to kick in and force you to find a male to procreate with, if you push through that you'll almost certainly live a depressed life -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:25:29 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew ok men usually aren't "100% straight or gay" either though, at least have gathered so from the dudes have talked to, bisex tendencies are underestimated in general (and moreso in guys) because of "pick a side" culture. still are apparently some people who are completely fixated though, or at least they've told me they are and had however many decades to prove it by living, soand not being able to have kids isn't the end of everything, like i can't ever because this body is all messed up and broken (and currently trying to eat itself), and sometimes just have to stop and feel sad for a while, but i also really love caring for nephling and love bf and looking forwards to married if we both manage to survive this messand being completely honest, relationship goals here are lesbiab couple who lived 50 years together and adopted became-happy kids and were amazing... up until separated by death because alzheimers, which did not look fun at all, either having to watch loved one fall apart like that or mortality in general, and still-living wife didn't last long after, but grandmother here was the same once grandfather died, motivation to exist just disappears at some point for everyone if they live long enoughbetter to be happy together for 50 years than the garbage mess of panic-marriage-and-divorces all over everywhere now though -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:30:52 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew like, of all the people have ever met, have got exactly two reference models for "long and happy marriage until-death-do-us-murder", and one was gay and one was straight -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:41:01 JST
ew
@shmibs >like i can't ever because this body is all messed up and broken (and currently trying to eat itself)why is that -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:41:01 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew idunno, why were you born with a body that functions? (presumably -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:41:16 JST
ew
@shmibs no one is talking about marriage -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 12:41:16 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew you're talking about "being happy", and a marriage that doesn't suck is kind of requirement for that. no amount of child-having compensates (try asking mother here if having 6 kids magically fixed everything -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 13:06:57 JST
ew
@shmibs you don't need to get married to be in a relationship with someone or have a baby -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 13:06:57 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew all three of those things can exist independent from the others, sure. for "being happy", though, they're all generally pretty great for most peoplebaby-having wouldn't be quite so much prerequisite, though, if strong-and-independent singleton western culture was more like supposed history of communal living and child-rearing (one of the big differences in humans compared to chimpanzees, for whom only-the-mother-cares-for-kids is the norm -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 13:07:22 JST
ew
@shmibs no but I also exercise and am not fat so I have a body that works as intended -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 13:07:22 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew yeh, prenatal-me should've worked out more and eaten right while in the womb -
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 13:09:49 JST
バツ子(痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@ew single mother is the opposite of communal -
ew (ew@social.ancreport.com)'s status on Thursday, 24-Jun-2021 13:09:50 JST
ew
@shmibs that doesn't work because single mother households is what predicts crime
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