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1. ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:52 JST ew

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   @NEETzsche @nik why do you think women get bored in relationships and leave their husbands?
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:52 JST nikki

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     @ew @NEETzsche because christian marriage culture has men and women marrying into absolutely "meh" tier relationships that fall apart in 15-20 years because they were never that great from the start
     バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; likes this.
   • NEETzsche :iddqd: (neetzsche@iddqd.social)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:53 JST NEETzsche :iddqd:

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     @ew @nik I’m pro-Taliban in like… memes, yeah. I don’t want to live under them, though. Different kinds of governance work for different kinds of people, and as it turns out, Taliban shit works in Afghanistan.

   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:54 JST ew

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     @NEETzsche @nik aren't you pro-taliban? they take multiple wives. they aren't domesticated by a single woman
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:55 JST ew

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     @nik why would you want to trust or have faith that your boyfriend won't cheat on you? that means you have him. not trying to insult your bf here but strong men don't get domesticated easily, and when they do they aren't strong men. you'll quickly get bored.
   • NEETzsche :iddqd: (neetzsche@iddqd.social)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:55 JST NEETzsche :iddqd:

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     @ew @nik >you need to be worried your bf is cheating or else he’s domesticated

     some subversive shit right here

   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:56 JST nikki

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     @ew yes, but in my view on things infidelity issues are handled between you and your partner on the basis of relationship trust. i trust that my boyfriend won't do anything that we said we won't, and i don't need to put training wheels (control who he can be friends with) on our relationship to discourage him from breaking our trust.said otherwise: if i don't trust my partner to not cheat on me and have to control who they spend time with due to that, why would i even want a relationship with them in the first place?
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:57 JST ew

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     @nik would you care if your partner was emotionally infidelious as opposed to sexual infidelity?
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:58 JST nikki

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     @ew hmm to me I just feel like greater financial independence levels the playing field somewhat and prevents the man from having all of the power, so women feel safer.
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:58 JST nikki

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     @ew traditional straight relationship stuff baffles me sometimes though so i might just be talking out of my assi only learned a few months ago how common really strong jealousy/control is in straight relationships (e.g. you don't want your partner having any opposite sex friends)
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:27:59 JST ew

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     @nik As 2010 study of 3,770 heterosexual adults suggested that women often prefer older men. As the women became more financially independent, they said they liked older guys even more."We think this suggests greater financial independence gives women more confidence in partner choices, and attracts them to powerful, attractive older men," lead author and University of Dundee psychologist Fhionna Moore
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:00 JST nikki

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     @ew I can think of a few but I would never actually want to do anything with them romantically
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:01 JST ew

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     @nik you can't think of any hollywood actors that you think are hot despite being older?
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:02 JST nikki

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     @ew no
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:03 JST ew

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     @nik do you think george clooney is hot?
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:04 JST nikki

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     @ew same. def see men in their late twenties going after myself and friends my age though...kinda weird. has even happened on fedi here lol.
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:05 JST nikki

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     @ew oh i feel like that rejection (at least 20 + 24-25) is pretty typical regardless of genders
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:05 JST ew

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     @nik well it certainly wasn't because of my looks or anything, I think 30-40 year olds pairing up with 25 year olds seems more obvious to me now idk why you'd want a boytoy with little life experience at 25 as a chick
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:06 JST nikki

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     @ew how old were they?
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:06 JST ew

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     @nik 24-25 or so
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:07 JST nikki

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     @ew hey im better at this than some ppl older than 25
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:07 JST ew

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     @nik I guess it's okay if you're a chick. I got rejected by a decent amount of chicks for being 20-23, didn't understand why till I got older
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:08 JST ew

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     @nik being under 25
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:09 JST ew

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     @nik I rest my case
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:09 JST nikki

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     @ew what's wrong with me on the internet smh
   • ew (ew@masochi.st)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:10 JST ew

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     @nik everyone below 25 yrs old needs to have their internet usage restricted
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:10 JST nikki

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     @ew i-im 20
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 10-Sep-2021 04:28:11 JST nikki
     >"hot" in discord bio>16 years oldcan teenagers s t o p