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@lain @xj9 @georgia @guizzy @Moon @Xalef it looks just as weird when guys do it; they just don't themselves realise...
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@georgia @guizzy @Moon @Xalef @xj9 yes women only get 73% of the age of men
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@guizzy @lain @Moon @Xalef @xj9 so you're saying there's a different standard for women and men huh
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@lain @Moon @Xalef @georgia @xj9 I find it returns pretty reasonable numbers in finding the lower bounds of a man's dating range (ie: the most likely scenario people are interested in). The age gap between Mitsu and I is about that (plus 1 year since yesterday). It's elegant too since the range widens as people get older and their age starts having less bearing on their development. But I'll admit it seems tuned to lower bound of a man's dating range; I've known one woman in her thirties or late 20s dating a guy in his early 20s and it looked weird and off-balanced which makes me think the range is probably tighter in that scenario.
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@Moon @Xalef @georgia @xj9 seems pretty random
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@lain @Xalef @georgia @xj9 do not date if younger than half your age plus seven years. It's been an American rule of thumb for over a hundred years.
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@Moon @georgia @Xalef @xj9 what kind of stupid rule is this
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@georgia @xj9 @Xalef I met a nice girl recently but she's on the wrong side of the "half-plus-seven" rule.
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@georgia @Xalef there are many other ways to meet people that aren't tinder.
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@xj9 @Xalef that's how both my sisters started their last relationships
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@georgia what do you mean?
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@Xalef tinder and that shit is very superficial and i'm superficially something they want but inside i'm ugh not something most women like or can relate to at all.
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the problem i will inevitably have if i ever want to know the touch of a woman is that i'm going to be accepted by a lot of people who will later reject me when they get to know me. that will hurt a lot.