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kaia (kaia@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:29:13 JST 
kaia
guys when they come on to you:"I promise, I ..." -
バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:29:05 JST 
バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@Moon @NeonPurpleStar @kaia @why "receptive" as in "30-something guy approaches 19-old sheltered girl and says all the lines carefully and she's like 'i feel weird, uhm' and stuff happens and then she goes and cries and he's like 'YES, fistpump' and goes to find someone else" -
Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:29:06 JST 
Infected Moomin
@NeonPurpleStar @kaia @why the goal of puas is to speedrun and social-hack all the shit necessary but not sufficient to get a girl into bed. They discard unreceptive girls quickly so they can move on to a better one. Some women will just chalk it up to a rejection, some will notice the manipulation and be annoyed, and some will be receptive. -
NeonPurpleStar (neonpurplestar@mastodon.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:29:10 JST
NeonPurpleStar
@Moon @kaia @whyMoon, in my own experience, it really isn’t like that.Many guys do believe that women like to be forcibly approached, because it is a “woman’s instinct” to be subjugated to a man.Women MIGHT want that on a sexual encounter (tastes vary) or a few dates down the road, but never on the first meeting.If you do that the first time you meet a girl, she will only be scared for the safety.
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Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:29:11 JST
Infected Moomin
@kaia @why they don't say you can get any girl, they say if you approach enough girls you will find one that wants a one night stand. You will annoy or alienate all the rest of them but if you wanna make an omelette you gotta break a few other people's eggs. -
kaia (kaia@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:29:12 JST
kaia
@why there are apparently "pickup artists" who teach that you can get any girl with whatever as long as you look alpha and confident about it. the first time I could not even come up with a witty remark, I was so confused. -
whyfi (why@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:29:13 JST 
whyfi
@kaia do straight guys really come on g*rls like that -
バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:41:06 JST
バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
@Moon @icedquinn @allison @NeonPurpleStar @kaia @why (worked for here bf and...think not "being yourself" is dangerous because leads to later conflict and divorce and stuff -
Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:41:07 JST
Infected Moomin
@icedquinn @allison @NeonPurpleStar @kaia @why "just be yourself" is the second-worst advice, behind "don't be yourself". The correct action is be your best self. -
Iced Quinn :blobcatverifiedfake: (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:41:09 JST 
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@allison @Moon @NeonPurpleStar @kaia @why i have been honest about who and what i am for ~30 years and literally 100% failure rate. do not do it. the only time this ever works is if you are 'genuinely' already the right kind of person.there is the sleazy half of the PUA sphere that gets all of the advertisement but the other half is just teaching people who to properly signal in ways that make them appear worthy of affection. one of such classes was literally just how to select acceptable clothing and what then-acceptable hair and face styles were -
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@icedquinn @NeonPurpleStar @Moon @kaia @why Maybe I'm biased by my experiences -
Iced Quinn :blobcatverifiedfake: (icedquinn@blob.cat)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:41:18 JST
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@allison @why @Moon @NeonPurpleStar @kaia being genuine absolutely does not work -
whyfi (why@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 14-Dec-2021 03:41:19 JST
whyfi
@allison @Moon @NeonPurpleStar @kaia yeah its really stupid. id rather take a lot of shots in the light, or just have some beers/cocktails while enjoying my time -
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@why @NeonPurpleStar @Moon @kaia Yeah there's something to be said for just being genuine that gets overlooked a lot when it comes to online pickup advice. Unfortunately, being genuine is a hard thing to cultivate so people will always go for the "quick" and "easy" strat instead because near-surefire partial results are "better" than the not-insubstantial chance of no results at all -
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@Moon @NeonPurpleStar @kaia @why PUA is the ultimate "take a bunch of shots in the dark and see what sticks" meta when it comes to getting with girls
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