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mothball蛾玉 (moth_ball@shitposter.club)'s status on Saturday, 01-May-2021 07:35:39 JST 
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@shmibs If it has worked for them before, then it's part of the way they operate. But I get what you mean, sucks to think you have a friend when they just want sex.In my past relationships the girls have been the sex-crazed ones sometimes to the point of bothering me a lot. I like sex as much as the next guy but for me it's more important to have thoughts on the same wavelength, especially in the long run. I want to talk, laugh and enjoy the whole experience with the other person. A bit over a year ago I met a girl in a university club who I had some really interesting talks with. And while it didn't go anywhere, it was nice to be reminded that compatible people are out there. -
mothball蛾玉 (moth_ball@shitposter.club)'s status on Saturday, 01-May-2021 07:19:20 JST
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@shmibs Yeah, I've learned that it's easier to go about things with actions rather than words. What I'd at least hope is that I'd be told that the other person doesn't want anything to do with me anymore instead of me thinking that there's still a friendship or something.If a relationship with another person doesn't become intimate in a certain time frame, I'd say both people then have nonverbally agreed to not go further unless something strange happens. But the thing is, everyone has different experiences they build those assumptions on, so there will always be some clashing ideas about what the correct thing to do is.I've been single for a while now and I think I want the next thing to come about naturally, rather than through some app. -
mothball蛾玉 (moth_ball@shitposter.club)'s status on Saturday, 01-May-2021 07:07:08 JST
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@shmibs @admin @Moon @Nudhul In middle school I can recount three separate cases of confessing to someone online, though they were all people I knew IRL. Rejected in all cases of course, some more politely than others. One even made her friend send me a reply instead of saying anything.With my first girlfriend in high school we were sitting pretty closely to each other and I blurted out "grandma's going to be happy when she hears I have a girlfriend" to which she replied "oh, I'm your gf?" and we ended up making it official then and there.With second gf she'd been at my place for a couple of times already and when we were lounging on the bed I asked "so, are you like my gf now?" to which she said that she'd already thought she was for a good while.Somewhere between the last two there was this really awkward situation where the girl had for some reason gone along with my invitations to hang out but any advancements would be deflected quietly in a very humiliating way. The way she rejected me when I told her I liked her was more like being vague in hopes that I'd just stop instead of being clear about how she feels. We did get along well otherwise and did chat a lot after the ordeal too so it still puzzles me when I think about it.So whatever you do, communicate clearly. I can't stand people who thing everything is some mind reading game. -
mothball蛾玉 (moth_ball@shitposter.club)'s status on Saturday, 10-Apr-2021 13:52:49 JST
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