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1. Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 02:57:01 JST Infected Moomin
   isn't it actually easier to say you're superstraight than constantly have to qualify you're looking for a cis girl
   • Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 02:56:59 JST Infected Moomin

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     • TheTrueWhiteBrother
     @Coyote there shouldn't be words to express preferences?
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 02:56:59 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

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     • TheTrueWhiteBrother
     @Moon @Coyote yes actually, would solve a lot of issues if could get to that point; people self-defining as gay or straight or whatever as if that was an identity is dumbbeing rid of discrimination requires "this one time i liked a girl" and "this one time i dated a guy" etc to become non-events, and reaching that point seems more do-able than with "race" stuff since legbutt-ness is spread more homogeneously through populations and can't be fenced off by separating neighbourhoods or whatever
   • TheTrueWhiteBrother (coyote@masthead.social)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 02:57:00 JST TheTrueWhiteBrother

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     @Moon Why say anything at all unless everybody is wondering out loud if you really are straight or not?

   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 02:58:39 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

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     • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
     • TheTrueWhiteBrother
     @Moon @Coyote also didn't know that's what "superstraight" meant, but if so then it seems like it's a phrase expressly chosen to say to people "you're not real men" "you're not real women" isn't it? by using "straight" that way
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:02:34 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

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     • TheTrueWhiteBrother
     @Moon @Coyote that sounds like a different definition then? confused
   • Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:02:35 JST Infected Moomin

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     • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
     • TheTrueWhiteBrother
     @shmibs @Coyote I don't think the actual word should be used because it's a troll, but it made me think.it's a meme that started on tiktok apparently and just means you are cishet.
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:05:33 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

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     • TheTrueWhiteBrother
     @Moon @Coyote ah yeh ok, then that sounds like it's explicitely saying:- no, i'm actually straight- which means i only date guys- and you're not "actually" a guy
   • Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:05:34 JST Infected Moomin

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     • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
     • TheTrueWhiteBrother
     @shmibs @Coyote well, cishet interested in another cishet.
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:20:11 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

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     • nikki
     • Vesuvius Fire of Fire
     @Moon @xj9 @nik makes about as much sense as any of those other words. if choosing one, though, it shouldn't have "straight" in it if the point is to be useful rather than hurt people
   • Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:20:12 JST Infected Moomin

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     • Vesuvius Fire of Fire
     @xj9 @nik is there a reason there shouldn't be a word? Excluding for a moment Shmibs' suggestion that no one should need words.
   • Vesuvius Fire of Fire (xj9@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:20:13 JST Vesuvius Fire of Fire

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     • nikki
     @nik @Moon i'm cishet man looking for cishet gal is pretty easy to state i think??
   • Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:20:14 JST Infected Moomin

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     • nikki
     @nik I was thinking like, dating sites or matchmakers or whatever.
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:20:14 JST nikki

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     @Moon ah, eh i mean dating sites already just have people select who they want to see, and thats a one time option. what i meant is i didnt see what situation you'd have to "constantly [...] qualify you're looking for a cis girl"
   • nikki (nik@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Tuesday, 06-Apr-2021 03:20:15 JST nikki

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     @Moon in what environment would either scenario apply? you're the one selecting people, evaluate each individual yourself.