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1. The Milf Messiah (lunarised@whinge.town)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:33:06 JST The Milf Messiah
   w*men trying to make a point, but failing miserably
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:32:52 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

     in reply to

     • Infected Moomin
     • Hyolobrika
     • Giganova8
     @Moon @Hyolobrika @Giganova8 @lunarised > taking a walk> guy in his car notices you> slowly follows you around for the next 15 minutes until you cut into a wash and run awayit's not just a numbers thing
   • Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:32:53 JST Infected Moomin

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     • Hyolobrika
     • Giganova8
     @Hyolobrika @Giganova8 @lunarised its just a numbers thing, men don't get catcalled often so it's special, for some women it's a constant unwanted background noise
   • Hyolobrika (hyolobrika@berserker.town)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:32:55 JST Hyolobrika

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     • Giganova8

     @Giganova8 @lunarised sex is more painful and tiring for women than men so it's understandable that they would dislike attention from the opposite sex unless she feels sure that he's going to be a net benefit for her

   • Giganova8 (giganova8@varishangout.net)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:33:01 JST Giganova8

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     @lunarised I remember some reddit post about a woman who wanted to "educate" her BF on catcalling, set up a friend to do it to him, and then got all flustered because he was incredibly happy rather than feeling "objectified". :illya_smug:
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:42:42 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

     in reply to

     • Infected Moomin
     • Hyolobrika
     • Giganova8
     @Moon @Hyolobrika @Giganova8 @lunarised ah no no!, not being annoyed or anythingit's just another one of those things usually guys don't understand though, i guess, like that you can be out doing daily things and random people will just stop and decide "ok, now you need to stop what you're doing and pay attention to me for the half hour >:)", either because bullying is the only way they can interact with people (intentionally try to make you upset / scared) or it's just someone who's kind of lonely and doesn't realise what he's doing (feeling sad) or it's someone who's drunk or on meth or just doesn't care about being seen and is actually going to start grabbing you and doing things, and it can be difficult to know which one this particular person is, so some reactions can seem like overreactions
   • Infected Moomin (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:42:44 JST Infected Moomin

     in reply to

     • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
     • Hyolobrika
     • Giganova8
     @shmibs @Hyolobrika @Giganova8 @lunarised I'm sorry, I did not mean to imply that there was not worse harassment, there definitely is.
   • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;; (shmibs@tomo.airen-no-jikken.icu)'s status on Friday, 06-May-2022 00:46:43 JST バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;

     in reply to

     • バツ子（痛いの痛いの飛んでけ;;
     • Infected Moomin
     • Hyolobrika
     • Giganova8
     @Moon @Giganova8 @Hyolobrika @lunarised so i guess to really get what's going on you need to have the "fear" aspect of it