Notices by Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in), page 7
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Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 03-Jun-2021 09:12:38 JST
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@Moon @shmibs @lain snacks snacks -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Sunday, 30-May-2021 07:59:18 JST
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@shmibs @dhfir @georgia @lanodan I cant have a discussion with you if you don't understand the basis of what I'm talking about and I don't have the mental energy to cover it in a consistent way at the moment. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Sunday, 30-May-2021 07:03:29 JST
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@shmibs @dhfir @georgia @lanodan third sex regardless of societal female or societal male role subverts the binary regardless of mention of the binary, because it implies the existence of something in-between. I am aware that probably in the past or in certain tribal societies some of the people in the third sex roles were simply binary trans people who fully saw/see themselves as the opposite gender and just took the third sex role because that was what was in place in society. That’s fine. But the existence of the third sex itself implies something in-between and therefore outside of the binary of 0 and 1.
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Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Sunday, 30-May-2021 06:41:47 JST
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@shmibs @dhfir @georgia @lanodan what are you saying isn't true in my statement? -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Sunday, 30-May-2021 06:30:59 JST
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@georgia @dhfir @lanodan that goes for everyone. Sometimes having oppression happen to you gives you trauma. Just like how rape can give you trauma, and then people will complain about people who are vocal rape victims. Being vocal about trauma isn't a sin the way people act like it is. Nonbinary people get accused of making their sexuality their identity like a fuck ton. I have been accused of having nonbinary as a personality and I barely talk about being nonbinary. Nonbinary people get harassed more than binary trans people due to the third sex being systemically wiped out. so if I did "make it my identity" by talking about it that wouldn't be such a big deal. I don't believe this whole "their only personality trait is their sexuality and therefore makes the rest of us look bad is a thing.". Milo Stewart got accused of this and got overly unjust harassment for it. It just seems to be the case where people want to shut people who have had trauma from society up. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Sunday, 30-May-2021 06:30:57 JST
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@georgia @dhfir @lanodan privledge and situations change a lot of things. Binary is a privledge. That's not to say like. A binary trans women's life is inherently going to be better than a closeted nonbinary person's life. Just like how a white person's life isn't going to be inherently better than a poc's person's life. Like if you're a Hispanic person who has the privledge of being born in a high economic status you're probably going to have a better time than a person who is white and comes from a family who is debt. But that doesn't mean white privledge doesn't exist. Like if you're binary. You have the privledge of having and entire system dedicated to you because western society legit wiped out the third sex. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Sunday, 30-May-2021 06:17:31 JST
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@georgia @lanodan @dhfir "bi people are in "the community" because they are same sex attracted and for no other reason" This kind of language leads to experiences like this. "When I came out as bi to my closest friend in that group, I had a lot of pressure from her and a few other people who were also lesbian to ditch being bi and come out as a lesbian. When I said it would be untrue, I was met with these just insidious and snarky comments. For a long time I felt deflated, and like they were more legitimately queer than me.""This isolates fellow queer people. Who feel like they can't find community within the queer community because they are not queer enough. This is damaging to them hence the term biphobia. Here's the article:https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.refinery29.com/amp/en-gb/2021/04/10415162/how-to-deal-with-biphobia -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 07:06:54 JST
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@shmibs @nik @shibao okay nah I've def done that. With exception to the last one. I got traumatized out of wanting suicide. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 06:15:56 JST
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@shmibs @nik @shibao hm. I feel like in normal mode I'm in a small corner of my brain though. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 06:15:53 JST
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@shibao @nik @shmibs I dissociated/dissociate a lot and never got to depersonalization levels. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 05:17:47 JST
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@shmibs @nik @shibao I disagree with that part though. They're claiming that the monks were trying to escape their horrible surroundings by retreating into dissociation. But a lot of what monks did was garden, enjoy nature, make coffee, and look after orphans. Daoism and buddhism influenced eachother greatly in china and daoism is heavily about enjoying nature and the beauty of nature. The Pali texts meaning to reject the outside world as unholy is a very laughable interpretation. The only purpose of detaching from the senses is to take a proper look at the mind. In a lot buddhism you meditate on something else. Like your pinky finger. Or an image in your head. Or nature. Or the chime of a bell. And attach yourself to that. And experience it fully. You detach and attach. Full detachment is something that comes after jhana so I have no clue what it is. In general there's a lot of secrets to some Buddhist practices because they're dangerous to people with no -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 05:17:46 JST
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@shmibs @nik @shibao not enough experience. So I think you are right actually. Now that stuff makes more sense -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 04:48:40 JST
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@shmibs @nik @shibao this is just making me hate Buddhist retreats for white people. Not meditation. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 04:28:23 JST
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@shmibs @nik meditation is supposed to do the opposite of dissociating. Instead of dissociating your suppose to associate. Yes you are supposed to be detached from the body and the thoughts. But it is in order to seek clarification. To associate with conciousnous. Sometimes meditation focuses on the senses. If you turn off the commentary your mind can focus on everything surrounding you and details become more enhanced. A quick glance of a leaf will give you a leaf. A long glance at a leaf will give you each individual vein of the leaf. With meditation instead of observing the commentary of your brain you are observing. Therefore you can observe your mind in you focus on the mind instead of the senses. In dissociating you go into nothingness meditation is much different than nothingness and much harder than nothingness. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 04:28:21 JST
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@shibao @nik @shmibs solid meditation though. I'd start by not turning off the thoughts. But not holding attachment to the thoughts and letting them drift away like a stream. And then important thoughts will come in. Like "wtf what about that random bill." Or "what about this emotion that you've been suppressing for a while but you definitely still have it you're just unaware of it because youve been thinking about other things." Or I'll try to meditate and then notice something is on the floor and then I just end up cleaning my room. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Friday, 28-May-2021 01:12:30 JST
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@shmibs @nik then you ain't meditating right. Too much meditation is supposed to unfold your mind like a lotus flower. uwu. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 27-May-2021 12:45:04 JST
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@nik become like ur work man. Meditate it out. Thats what I did and now I'm a lot more powerful. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Thursday, 27-May-2021 12:45:02 JST
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@nik super anxious guy from work. That you said meditates. Every day -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Wednesday, 26-May-2021 21:48:28 JST
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@shmibs @greenskeeper I confused him with Elton John. -
Rizzo (rizzo@letsalllovela.in)'s status on Wednesday, 26-May-2021 02:45:01 JST
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@greenskeeper no joke same. When I was 12 all I had was that Macklemore song. Like David Bowie was gay but he was hush hush gay and never had any songs about him being gay. It was like gay was an unfortunate illness he had that wasn't really brought up.